{"id":163,"date":"2012-11-07T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2012-11-07T12:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kikis-list.com\/2012\/11\/07\/this-is-how-i-spent-my-saturday\/"},"modified":"2013-06-04T00:15:45","modified_gmt":"2013-06-04T04:15:45","slug":"this-is-how-i-spent-my-saturday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kikis-list.com\/blog\/2012\/11\/07\/this-is-how-i-spent-my-saturday\/","title":{"rendered":"This is How I Spent My Saturday."},"content":{"rendered":"
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I have something to share with you all…. It’s something that I have debated writing about, but I feel like I have shared so much of my life with each of you and you have been so supportive with me through the good times… now it’s time to share with you some of the bumps in the road.<\/div>\n

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I have always been assertive, aggressive and high-energy. \u00a0I bought my first house at 23, I became a manger at an elite software company by the time I was 25, \u00a0and proudly paid down half of our mortgage by the time I was 35. \u00a0All the while, I volunteered at school, was a class mom and chaperoned every field trip possible. \u00a0I loved throwing parties for my kids and loved spending time with them and their friends. \u00a0I was super-mom, and loving it. \u00a0Sleep was not something that I needed much of– I figured I could sleep when I die. <\/p>\n

The last six months have been without a doubt the most stressful in my lifetime.\u00a0\u00a0With the increase of stress came an increase in malaise, hair loss, migraines, joint pain, not to mention the memory loss that I had always thought was “Mommy Brain.” I found myself increasingly unable to function to my fullest capacity at work, word searching and not being able to remember simple events, conversations, names or facts. Soon I was virtually unable to function. \u00a0 I thought I was literally having a nervous breakdown. \u00a0I went to several doctors and they said that it was depression and that I was an “over-worked mother” and that this was all normal. \u00a0I KNEW it wasn’t normal. \u00a0I know my body, and this was NOT normal. \u00a0 An old friend of mine referred me to a hormone specialist, whom I gladly went to see… \u00a0At this point, I would try anything. \u00a0I was willing to see ANYONE who could help me. \u00a0After discussing my symptoms with him he suggested a few hormone tests as well as a test for Lyme Disease. \u00a0Well, two weeks later when I went for my follow-up I nearly fell out of my chair when he told me that I have Lyme Disease. \u00a0WHAT? \u00a0You’ve got to be kidding? \u00a0I don’t play sports. \u00a0I don’t camp. \u00a0My idea of a hike is hiking it to the mall. \u00a0How can this happen???<\/p><\/div>\n

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I quickly started educating myself on Lyme Disease and all of the symptoms made perfect sense. \u00a0I am fortunate enough to have a community of friends and family who were able to recommend some of the best specialists in the world. \u00a0 According to the traditional medical community, these doctors are considered “alternative practitioners,” because what they say does not follow the protocol set by the Center for Disease Control (CDC) \u00a0and the Infectious Disease Society of America (IDSA.) \u00a0So many of these doctors are not covered by insurance and I would have to pay out of pocket. \u00a0At this point, I didn’t care. \u00a0After an extensive physical the conclusion was made that we don’t know how long I’ve had this. \u00a0But my physician seems to think I’ve had it for some time. \u00a0 I also was shocked to learn that Lyme Disease can be passed in-utero. \u00a0 Therefore, the obvious next step was to get my girls tested. \u00a0With this, my worst fears were realized. \u00a0Anna has now tested positive for acute Lyme. \u00a0<\/div>\n
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For those of you who don’t have Lyme, this is all very hard for you to understand… I mean, I look normal, I am not missing a limb, and I don’t have cancer. \u00a0How sick can I be? Those of you who know me well have seen it- \u00a0my friends who I continue to cancel on because I just can’t function, my co-workers who have noticed my “fog” and even all of you who I am sure have seen some major slip ups on this very blog in the past few months…. It is real, and it is terrifying. \u00a0I can literally feel my health declining each day. \u00a0It all came on so quickly, and now I am in the thick of it. \u00a0 One of my friends who also has Lyme said it best. \u00a0She said \u00a0“I’ll be lying in bed at night and I can literally feel those little f*ckers moving inside me.” \u00a0By f*ckers, she means the borrelia burgdorferi bacteria that causes Lyme. \u00a0It’s a spiral shaped bacteria (also called a spirochete.) \u00a0It attacks your joints, your muscles and your brain.<\/div>\n
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\u00a0 I am scared. \u00a0I am terrified at what this disease has done to me over the past couple of months. \u00a0I have now become an expert of the difference between Lyme pain and “normal” pain. \u00a0This is an inflammatory disease, so I am becoming very keen on the burning sensation felt with Lyme. \u00a0As of late, I have been suffering from debilitating headaches. \u00a0My doctor requested an MRI and my suspicions were correct– those f*uckers that I talked about earlier???… \u00a0Well, they are in my brain. \u00a0 I am terrified of the road ahead. \u00a0The other day I saw a homeless man on the street corner who appeared to be Schizophrenic. \u00a0Before I always wondered “How did they get here? \u00a0How could they just let go of life?” \u00a0I can see how someone can stumble very quickly. \u00a0Not only am I fighting for my own health, I need to be an advocate for my daughter to protect her from this painful existence. \u00a0This has not been easy– I have been fighting with our Pediatrician, my general practitioner and even my husband about the “right” protocol for my sweet little girl. \u00a0Everyone tells me that she isn’t showing any symptoms– do we really want it to get to that point?<\/div>\n
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I worry. \u00a0I worry that I will run out of steam. \u00a0I worry that I will become that Schizophrenic man on the street corner, and I worry that my baby’s mental and physical health will take the same turn because we are turning a blind eye.<\/div>\n
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\u00a0I have been on Doxycycline for four months and my symptoms have only gotten worse. This week I started a new protocol (see that pill box above?) – a “cocktail” of antibiotics, very strong antibiotics, that I may have to take for years. \u00a0I have spent thousands of dollars in the past four months on doctors appointments, medications and physical therapy. \u00a0 If this treatment doesn’t work, the next step is to have a port implanted in my body that will disperse even stronger medications. <\/p>\n

If there is one positive thing that came out of my mother<\/a>‘s 16 year battle with cancer, is that you need to be your own advocate. \u00a0The doctors are merely consultants and YOU make the decisions. \u00a0So- \u00a0I will fight this. \u00a0I will regain my health, and I will make sure that my precious little girl is as happy and healthy as ever. \u00a0After all, I am my mother’s daughter.<\/p>\n

If you have questions about Lyme Disease, here are some things you can do:\u00a0<\/b><\/div>\n

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1.) Educate yourself of Lyme<\/a>. \u00a0Prevent you and your loved ones from going years without a diagnosis.<\/div>\n
2.) Sign this petition<\/a> to push for the IDSA to review new data and work with the top professionals in the field of Lyme\u00a0research.<\/div>\n
3.)\u00a0Learn from my mistakes.-\u00a0Don’t wait. \u00a0If your “medical” doctor is dismissing your concerns. \u00a0Ask for Westerm Blot Antibody Test with a CLIA approved lab that specializes in testing tick burned diseases. \u00a0(IgeneX<\/a>, MDL<\/a> or Stony Brook<\/a> are recommended,)<\/p>\n

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For more info: \u00a0Here is a great documentary<\/a> about the Lyme Epidemic in our country. \u00a0<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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